Hello,
I am sorry to hear about the difficulties you are facing in obtaining the required paystubs for your son's SSI. It seems like a challenging situation, but there are still some options you can consider:
1. **Contact Social Security Administration (SSA) Again:** It might be helpful to contact the SSA once more and explain the situation in detail. They may have alternative solutions or suggestions on how to proceed in this situation.
2. **Request a Wage and Income Transcript:** You can request a Wage and Income transcript from the IRS to show proof of income. This document includes information reported to the IRS, including W-2s and 1099s. This might help as an alternative to paystubs.
3. **Written Documentation:** If you have any other form of written documentation from the employers, such as offer letters, contracts, or any communication that mentions salary or wages, you could provide those to the SSA as additional proof of income.
4. **Other Financial Records:** While bank statements may not provide the exact information needed, you can still gather any financial records you have related to those periods of employment to show deposits and withdrawals that might help paint a picture of your husband's income during that time.
5. **Seek Legal Aid:** If possible, you may want to explore free legal aid services in your area that could provide assistance with resolving this issue. They may be able to provide advice or support in dealing with uncooperative employers.
I understand that this is a frustrating and sensitive situation, but please know that there are resources and options available to navigate through it. If you need further assistance or guidance, feel free to ask.